Of course the V stands for something that rhymes with North Carolina… 😂
I hope that your day is a restful and relaxing one. Justice and I got a bit off our schedule today and slept in until 9am (normal wake up time is 7). I’m NOT complaining!
I am really excited to be getting massages today and also being doted on. My husband is REALLY romantic all the time so today is a day that I get extras and I’m ABOUT THIS LIFE ok?!
One of the things that struck me as I took a shower this morning was how much of a shame it is for folks to go through life unhappy, as if they have no control over it.
I can’t saw that I was ever an “unhappy” person, but I can admit that I wasn’t happy for other people all the time.
Sometimes I’d feel like “why does SHE get to….” or “how do THEY have…”. In all honesty I realize now that it was a spirit of jealousy, not outright, but more of a subtle feeling.
Valentines Day was one of those day’s where those feelings would come up for me, everyone posting their gifts and presents while I was single and lonely.
If this resonates with you I want you to know that it’s normal to feel this way. The way society is set up, we are intentionally placed and marketed to in a spirit of competition. The “best” this and “number 1” that.
It wasn’t until I learned how to be single and HAPPY that I truly began to feel genuine happiness for other people and their success.
I started courting myself, instead of waiting for someone else to buy me flowers, I started buying my own! Instead of waiting for someone else to pay attention to the little things about me, I started paying attention to my OWN details.
One of the things I used to do was envision the success of others as my own. That exercise would allow me to fully recognize what I’ve since learned about energy. Everyone IS you.
I also started to take inventory of the ways I WAS shown love and celebrated the heck out of those things, even if they were “platonic”.
How you feel towards one person, you feel towards everyone.
Just keep in mind that you can change your perspective and your feelings.
I love you so much. If you’re reading this email, you are already in the midst of fulfilled people and situations.
Start with you, Love you. Be your own valentine and before you know it, you’ll see it manifested in your life.
With So Much Love,
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