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In the waiting room…
I hope you were able to enjoy the unseaonably BEAUTIFUL weather we experienced this past weekend. I had the opportunity to spend time and space with some of my loved ones and had a WONDERFUL time. We laughed, we cried and above all, we loved.
Love is a peculiar thing because it never really “leaves”. Even when relationship dynamics change or people transition… the (authentic) love shared always stays alive in the hearts of those that experienced it, and by default that love gets transferred to the new people and relationships that form.
I am writing this to you from the waiting room as one of my loved ones undergoes a surgical procedure and I am contemplating on the importance and magic of “the wait”.
As human beings we can tend to be a bit impatient at times wanting things to happen or unfold NOW, verus later. However.. the wait, is where the power is. The time that passes, is where the transformation unfolds. Things need time to “play out”..no matter what the subject matter is.
Life is a series of events that fill our time with memories and experiences and should never be rushed, or looked upon as some nuisance.
When we are waiting in life, it’s up to us to decide “how” we will wait. Will we continue to be passive or will we take initiative to create opportunities that benefit us and everyone around us? Sometimes the wait requires stillness, and sometimes it requires movement.
It’s best to “wait” with awareness, compassion, kindness, appreciation and empathy. These traits make the difference between a fulfilling life, and one that feels like a proverbial prison.
I hope you are experiencing lots of love, peace and satisfaction in your life. If you’re not, I want to remind you that it is completely possible for you and if you need a pep talk, feel free to reach out to me…just be forewarned that I’m a straight shooter and I’m not good at sugar coating things (nor do I believe it’s helpful) .
With So Much Love,
Meg
Surrendering is Strength
I pray that you are in a warm and safe space and you feel truly loved. Not necessarily by others (thought that’s nice too), but by YOURSELF. Loving yourself brings a peace that cannot be accessed any other way.
As we turn the corner this upcoming week into November, it’s always a good time to reflect on what areas of your life you’re looking to transform. Since November is my birthday month, I tend to analyze the entire last year and FIND ways to celebrate my progress. Some years I perceive there to be a lot, some years I only see a little. Every year, I remind myself that it’s hard to see the forest when you’re right next to the trees. The view from a helicopter may just be quite different.
There’s ALWAYS gratitude for still being in the land of the living.
Today, I want to remind us (me included) that true strength is in FEELING. As human’s I think we want to “escape ” feeling, whether it be with recreational drugs/alcohol, binge watching movies or social media, eating etc. When we hear about “surrender” it can seem like giving up, relinquishing something or quitting..but in reality, surrendering when it comes to emotions means that we ALLOW ourselves to feel. Whatever those feelings are.
Sometimes the feelings are branches of fear: shame, guilt, depression, regret, inadequacy etc. Sometimes the feelings are extensions of love: excitement, gratitude, satisfaction, curiosity. Either way, I think we can all agree that our emotional state changes rather frequently, sometimes in the same day, or hour!
Feelings come and go, “escaping” from them only traps and forces them to find a different way to express themselves. Sometimes they express themselves in an overwhelming apathetic feel about life, sometimes we entertain toxic relational dynamics as a result and sometimes we develop ailments and dis-ease in our body because we refuse to just SURRENDER and allow ourselves to feel the initial uncomfortable emotion.
Louise Hay’s was a prolific author and self-help pioneer who wrote a book entitled “You Can Heal Your Life” in the 80’s and later wrong “Heal Your Body”. Her work was strongly predicated on the understanding that the inner emotional state has a direct correlation with the health and circumstances one experiences.
Check out her list of Causes of Symptoms here.
What I realized in my own life (and MANY of my clients) is that steaming is one of a few things that you can do “externally”, which allows you to access (and process!!!!) your internal emotions. There’s something about the act of surrendering to the steam, the herbs, the intention of the practice, that creates “perfect storm” of emotional/trauma release and healing.
I invite you to surrender to yourself and allow all of your suppressed and unprocessed emotions and trauma to lovingly leave your heart. You may just find that some of your dis-ease goes with it.
Wishing you lots of peace, prosperity and joy.
With So Much Love,
Meg
Stop Waiting on God
Unfortunately some of us have been taught that we are to “wait on GOD” to change the things in our life that we are currently unhappy with. Whether it’s feeling depressed, feeling anxious, feeling unworthy or unappreciated.
What if God is waiting on you?
Instead of asking God to “fix things” for you, how about telling GOD thank you for the small things that most of us take for granted. Things like: the use of your wrists, healthy toes, the ability to see and hear, the ability to make choices, our beds and digestion systems.
Although I am far from my days of studying my Masters Degree in Divinity and even the dogma of traditional Christianity, there is SO much wisdom to be found in the passages of biblical texts.
Romans 12:2 states “Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect.”
Transformation doesn’t happen from God coming down and changing everything in your life, it happens through you VIEWING everything in your life differently with a renewed perspective. Once this happens, new decisions are made, new gratitude is found and new circumstances begin to unfold.
I want to encourage you today that if you are “waiting” for anything, it should be YOU. You will not see a smile in the mirror until you smile first. Likewise, you will not see a change in your circumstances until you decide that there is no other option and act accordingly.
When I decided that I was no longer willing to continue repeating unhealthy relationship patterns (and I’m not talking about just romantic, I’m talking friendships, colleagues, the parent-child relationship) it meant that I began to change the things about MYSELF that contributed to these dynamics.
When I decided that I wanted to body to be more slim, fit and healthy, I started to cut out sugar, seed oils and incorporated fasting.
When I decided that I was going to start a business to help facilitate womb healing in other woman, I started to post on social media, post flyers around town and spark conversations with strangers.
None of these things happen overnight, however the common denominator is that I first, made a decision. I wasn’t “waiting for God to make any of these things, I took accountability and responsibility for changing them and THEN, God came through and facilitated miracles beyond my wildest imagination.
For me, V Steaming was a MAJOR catalyst to being able to access my heart (and womb) to discover what I truly desired to let go of, and to invite in.
I invite you to join me this Friday, 10/13 at 8PM EST to gather in a safe space to steam and encourage you to begin making decisions that will lead to a life filled with joy, fulfillment, gratitude and prosperity.
I hope this message finds you well and inspired.
With So Much Love,
Meg
How to create your reality
Happy Sunday [FIRST NAME GOES HERE]!
I just went live on YouTube a few minutes ago about what’s going on today and how I am going to share an incredible tool with my family and friends!
I am inviting you to join in (and actually, I think I will plan a virtual party for us before the years out!)
Check this out!
You deserve to invest in your future with your time, energy and imagination.
Remember, abundance in your finances, but not in your self worth is not “success”.
Sending so much love,
Meg
New Moon, New Season, New You!
Today is the new moon in Libra and the autumn equinox was this past Thursday. We are in the midst of a huge transition, and if you haven’t noticed yet..our collective energy as humanity tends to mirror our environments.
I have been feeling urges to quantum jump my reality… which means I intend to create massive transformation for myself with about 80% less effort and time than it “normally” requires.
If you are familiar with my work you know that I personally choose and coach my clients, to choose to perceive through the lens of the 80/20 rule (also known as Pareto’s Principle).
It is a statistical rule that states that 80% of outcomes result from 20% of causes. The phenomenal benefit of understanding and applying this vantage point is that is can help you determine how to best allocate time, money and energy.
I’ve come to realize, that this golden nugget can be applied to every are of life, I can almost guarantee you wear 20% of your wardrobe 80% of the time…
With that being said, I want you to share a specific 80/20 perspective that has CHANGED MY WHOLE ENTIRE LIFE.
We wouldn’t be human if we didn’t “want” things or desire to have “more” or “better”. We should never be ashamed of our desires. We should, however ensure that we’re practicing OG (obsessive gratitude) at all times. The thing is, when we identify what it is we want next, we tend to attach to it all these conditions and rules and parameters about how it would best come to pass. I have learned that my desire IS the 20% when I simply combine it with humility and surrender.
What do I mean by that?
I mean that I can clearly state, or imagine or visualize what my desire is, and then ASK God to SHOW ME how it will manifest itself through the path of least resistance. Then, I begin to receive intuitive nudges that lead me down the path of watching my desire “unfold”.
I used to decide what I wanted and then “get to work coming up with a plan” on how it was supposed to happen. This is not to say that no “action” was required on my part, but it is to say that God’s plan and directive for what the next steps were ALWAYS proved to be so much easier and require a lot less effort than the my ego could devise.
I hope this is helpful!
If you want to learn more about Pareto’s Principle and how to truly heal and transmute your trauma’s while also learning how to Quantum Jump your life please do check out the Spiritual Level Up Power Pack that I recently launched. It’s a compilation of many of the life transforming classes I’ve created.
Happy New Moon, Season and You!
With So Much Love,
Meg
The trafficking story
Imma get straight to the point today. And no it’s not MY trafficking story but it’s a part of my story now because I am committing to helping this young lady elevate and transform her life.
I was asked to mentor a young lady in starting her business and helping her to get a better job. She’s currently making 20K per year in NYC 😰
She began to tell me her story… she was kidnapped at 12 years old and locked in a closet of an abandoned house and forced to prostitute for a year before she was arrested and put into the juvenille court system.
I cried. Then I got infuriated.
She is currently working for a non profit agency that is having her travel the world speaking about her story and advocating for 20K PER YEAR!!! WTF!!!!!
I am JUMPING on getting her resume updated and upgraded, creating her Indeed page and getting her all the opportunities available that she can offer her incredible story and wisdom to along with mentoring her closely to help with her mindset and manifesting the life she desires.
I mean, this girl is surviving on pennies while STILL BEING EXTORTED in my opinion.
She is behind in many of her bills and my goal is to raise at least $5000 for her to get secured and feeling safe as the first step.
I am asking you to PLEASE consider donating to her cause.
You can help and donate to:
CashApp $YesGodWellness
PayPal honeypotyonisteams@gmail.com
Zelle 919-306-3252
Venmo @yesgodwellness
I will in turn send the funds to her (and I’ll provide receipts ya’ll know how i am)
I have never asked this type of question of my Yes God Family but I know that we all have the same heart and want to make the world a better place. Let’s be the change we want to see.
Sending everyone who’s ever been through this love and soooo much healing energy.
With So Much Love,
Meg
Greetings [FIRST NAME GOES HERE]
Imma get straight to the point today. And no it’s not MY trafficking story but it’s a part of my story now because I am committing to helping this young lady elevate and transform her life.
I was asked to mentor a young lady in starting her business and helping her to get a better job. She’s currently making 20K per year in NYC 😰
She began to tell me her story… she was kidnapped at 12 years old and locked in a closet of an abandoned house and forced to prostitute for a year before she was arrested and put into the juvenille court system.
I cried. Then I got infuriated.
She is currently working for a non profit agency that is having her travel the world speaking about her story and advocating for 20K PER YEAR!!! WTF!!!!!
I am JUMPING on getting her resume updated and upgraded, creating her Indeed page and getting her all the opportunities available that she can offer her incredible story and wisdom to along with mentoring her closely to help with her mindset and manifesting the life she desires.
I mean, this girl is surviving on pennies while STILL BEING EXTORTED in my opinion.
She is behind in many of her bills and my goal is to raise at least $5000 for her to get secured and feeling safe as the first step.
I am asking you to PLEASE consider donating to her cause.
You can help and donate to:
CashApp $YesGodWellness
PayPal honeypotyonisteams@gmail.com
Zelle 919-306-3252
Venmo @yesgodwellness
I will in turn send the funds to her (and I’ll provide receipts ya’ll know how i am)
I have never asked this type of question of my Yes God Family but I know that we all have the same heart and want to make the world a better place. Let’s be the change we want to see.
Sending everyone who’s ever been through this love and soooo much healing energy.
With So Much Love,
Meg
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Don’t be THAT person
I have entertained MANY dm conversations where someone is asking a million questions about “how to” and when I lead them to the resource that breaks it down, they freeze.
They take NO action. They REFUSE to invest in themselves and then have deep seeded resentment because no one else does…
These same people continue to be in the same position (which is NOT what they truly desire) month after month and year after year.
If you don’t even keep your word to yourself it translates into not being able to be trusted with your desired manifestations.
Faith without works is dead – James 2:17
But here’s the thing, the “works” don’t have to be hard or unpleasant. Some of my most transformative shifts have been the results of some really FUN inner work!
The Spiritual Development Playground has officially been launched at introductory prices and I strongly encourage you to invest in yourself so you can overflow into all those you touch.
We are taking Pre – Orders for the life changing compilation of Audacious Affirmations E- Book. The book will be emailed on Christmas Day. One of best investments you can gift yourself!
The course entitled “F*ck Everything Else You’ve Learned About Manifestation” that will include the four masterclasses which I will be teach live this month every Friday night at 10PM EST. (Keep in mind this price will increase after all the sessions are completed and uploaded)
You can join the live classes for a more interactive and customized experience. Any purchase of this course will have links to the live sessions included.
- The Real Deal on Affirming
- Scripting for Success – 12/10
- Visualizing the Easy Way – 12/17
- Revising the Vision – 12/24
Imagine if you would have bought in on Bitcoin back when it was $7,000 a share… you could literally be a multi-millionaire right now.
The power of now is so great because it puts us in alignment with the FLOW of things without them having to require a lot of effort and energy.
Every time I’ve decided to go with my first intuitive nudge I have NEVER regretted it. It has saved me countless amounts of time and money.
I hope you choose you.
Here is a song that always pours into me and I know it can do the same for you!
With So Much Love,
Meg
How is this my fault?
This question can change your life as well as what you manifest moving forward.
When I had given birth to my 4th child as a single woman and was generally unhappy and unfulfilled I discovered steaming.
Yoni steaming was one of the catalysts that allowed me to connect back to my true essence… GOD. It allowed me to begin to release trauma and be vulnerable and honest with myself. It not only felt amazing but it started to high light my womb heart connection. It changed my life.
To this day, any situation I experience that is less than favorable for me, the first question I ask is….how is this my fault? what role did I play in this?
Life changes when accountability and ownership become a part of the equation.
This question enabled me to begin to do the deep healing and reprogramming of my own limiting beliefs that subsequently manifested me a successful business, amazing husband and beautiful life.
Yes God 🙏🏽♥️🙏🏽
What is currently happening in your life that you can change your approach to and change the outcome?
One of the first things I had to address was the resentment in my heart. I had to FORGIVE.
If you are having a hard time forgiving your parents or anyone in your life.. I highly recommend using the tools I personally used , which I’ve provided in our Forgiveness 101 Course, it’s changed lives.
I love you and I want to see you excel and exceed your wildest dreams.
With So Much Love,
Meg
“Strong Black Woman” no more!!!
I’m sure you’ve heard that phrase before.
I was raised to believe that it was noble, reverent and some badge of honor to constantly be “hustling”, “handling business”, “getting it out the mud” and “just doing it myself”.
For almost my whole life, I have been operating too much in my masculine energy.
It slides under the radar for so many of us because we’re born into situations that model these concepts. Our survival was literally dependent on the need to protect and provide for ourselves.
I’ve made a very radical decision about keeping up this unbalanced self concept, identify and image.
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Honestly, it’s QUITE a big mindset adjustment. This trait has allowed me to have many great accomplishments in my life, however the more that I am unlearning and reflecting on my experiences I am realizing that I was almost insistent in making things harder than they needed to be.
I, like many of us, was engrained to believe that if you don’t have to struggle for it, it’s not worth having.
As I reflect, I realize that many of the manifestations I received were because I was operating in my femininity, without actually being conscious of doing so…
Some of the ways I have been unbalanced (more masculine) in my energy have been:
- Not accepting help with simple things (carrying bags, lifting heavy packages, etc)
- Being impatient and “doing it myself” versus being still and allowing things to happen in their own time
- Overthinking, over strategizing and being a perfectionist. Being critical of myself and others
- Being so much of an open book, allowing everyone around me to know exactly what I was thinking and how I was feeling.
- Stepping in and trying to “help” grown men with thing and by default robbing them of their innate and intrinsic need to pursue, conquer and solve. Standing in the way of their evolution and development.
This has truly been a mind blowing and life changing concept that I’ve been taking time to absorb, apply and express. If we’re connected on social media, you may have noticed that I’ve been a lot less active there. I’ve been taking inventory of the things I’ve no longer been available for. Some of those things are:
- Waisting time on activities I don’t enjoy
- Scrolling my life away
- Consuming content that invoke feelings that are not pleasant for me
- Being in spaces where I don’t feel valued and appreciated
- Stretching myself too thin because I don’t want to relinquish control
It’s my intention that this may be inspiring for you to take inventory and identify some of the ways or approaches that could stand a reevaluation.
I invite you to join me in June for the following virtual and in person events!
- 6/6 @ 7PM – Diving into Diving Femininity – a virtual session that will leave you transformed with a clear picture on how to start leaning into your Divine Feminine to attract what you desire versus working for it
- 6/27 10am – 4pm Sip n Mix Atlanta – Enjoy a day of holistic beauty, education, shopping and fun hosted by The Butter Bar Skincare
I look forward to connecting with you soon!
With So Much Love,
Meg
And the truth set me free…
I happened to be checking out the various upcoming holidays and I came across “Honesty Day” on April 30th. Did you know that was a thing? I had no idea!
To me, Honesty Day should be everyday
Honesty is something that can literally transform your life. Here’s a few ways it transformed in mine:
- Being honest with myself about how I truly felt about my life and affairs allowed me to get real with myself about what direction I needed to move in.
- Being honest with myself about my limiting beliefs allowed me to create affirmations that attest to my new expansive and abundant beliefs.
- Being honest (and setting boundaries) with the men in my life who didn’t embody the behaviors and characteristics of what I desired from a partner allowed me to make space for my husband to enter my life.
- Being honest with myself about the consequences of certain decisions and habits I was choosing allowed me to change the choices I was making.
- Being honest with myself about what truly made me happy allowed me to lean more into those things and let go of what I was doing for other silly reasons like fear of what people would think or feelings of obligation.
Honesty is a game changer. It’s the main ingredient in profound transformation. The truth truly does set you free.
Are you being honest with yourself and everyone in your life?
Are you not being completely honest because that would then require you to do something different? Something that doesn’t seem like it would be comfortable to you?
I want to encourage you to invest some time taking an inventory of the various parts of your life and seeing if any are candidates for being a bit more honest about…
Steaming and/or bathing is a great time to ponder these things.
I have created the discount code HONESTY in case you’d like to stock up or perhaps give the gift of womb and heart health to your mother or someone you care for this upcoming Mother’s Day on May 9th.
This Thursday is the Sip, Steam & Release session where we’re going to be doing an extra special activity for releasing what isn’t serving us, specifically limiting beliefs. It’s gonna be REALLY GOOD, I’m excited and hope you’ll join us!
Have an amazing day.
With So Much Love,
Meg
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