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You Are Who You Sex

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Greetings yall!

I send love, peace and blessings to  every individual who reads this content. Today, I am going to be discussing the energetic exchange and spiritual side of sex. Ooooo… LOL.

Let’s talk about sex baby! This topic has been on my mind for years and years, I remember watching Juanita Bynum’s “No More Sheets” and learning of “soul ties” over 10 years ago. Today, I have such a deeper appreciation for the appropriate context upon which to apply this principle to life. (it’s not JUST about sexual relations, but sex definitely creates a much closer connection and tie to an individual’s energy.

In stepping into entrepreneurship, I am being afforded the opportunity to cross paths with literally thousands of women. I have developed a deeper compassion for the emotional and physical distress we all experience at some point in our lives. I hear, and have also experienced my fair share of emotional pain around romantic, sexual relationships. What I have begun to realize is that many times we suppress these heartbreaks and pain in an attempt to “move on” and carry on with life. The subtly obvious resentment, frustration, pessimism around relationships (even jokingly) illustrates that we are in fact, NOT over it. Actually, it winds up holding us hostage, imprisoned and therefore highly susceptible to continue to attract dynamics which produce the same emotions.

Another discovery which has become crystal clear is that emotional/energetic imbalances in our womb, can and will manifest into physical imbalances. This is why things become chronic even after being “treated” and even surgically removed. It’s worth pondering what your heart and womb is “not over” yet. Being authentic and honest with yourself is crucial to free yourself both emotionally and physically.

I am going to tell my own personal story about a time when I literally felt the sexual energy in my womb following a sexual encounter. This dynamic/relationship was toxic and I knew it. I allowed and made the choice to justify my decision of entertaining him. I had known intuitively and felt in my gut and heart that the love wasn’t healthy or even genuine. I let my desire for companionship and “intimacy” override my common sense, and truthfully, I still held onto a lot of pain from previous experiences which is precisely the point of this article. One evening after a late night booty call, as I was driving home, I felt what I can only describe as what felt like a claw, reaching up from my womb up into my chest as if it was attempting to climb my chakras. That seriously freaked me out and was one of the last times I was intimate with him. I did a lot of personal development work after that relationship to really dig into the roots of what attracted what was in retrospect, a horrific scenario.

Pain begets pain, it’s crucial to take intentional action to clear our physical and energetic temple. The womb has been long regarded as the most divine organ because it not creates, but houses and develops human life. This is an indisputable fact.

This is why womb health and detoxification is so important. Steaming offers a wonderful opportunity to release and reveal those pains and tender spots we’ve been pushing deeper and deeper into our subconscious. Not only to the physical imbalances begin to decrease, the emotional ones begin to “escape” with the assistance of all the earthly healing elements. (Fire, Water, Air, Earth and Energy)

Thank you for taking time to read.

With So Much Love,

Megan(2)

The Honey Pot

Releasing Guilt – Abortions

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Warning – This post may be triggering for some. I will be discussing abortion and my own experiences.

This has come up quite a bit for me lately in my client sessions and one of the main themes I see tied to it is guilt. Guilt happens to be a perception/emotion that haunts us way after whatever experience that led us to feel guilt in the first place. It’s really a plague that has many of us walking around feeling regret and despair over things that we have no control over, which can be uber disappointing and depressing. 

I used to feel a lot of guilt, depression and sadness over the abortion(s) I decided to have over my lifetime. I would go back and forth, over and under, around and through the different possible “karmic” consequences that may or may not have been a direct correlation to this decision. I beat myself up, pretty badly. I have since noticed that I have a really uncanny ability to drive my own self nuts in my mind through self-talk that is critical, judgmental, unforgiving and even cruel. 

There were a few different things I did to allow myself to heal from this deep rooted pain, regret, remorse and guilt I carried around for years, allowing it to overshadow my accomplishments and make me feel inferior, as if bad things were “destined” to happen to me. The first thing I did was really step back and become observant of my self talk ( hint, that’s always a good place to start when looking to heal any emotional pain). I also became the observer from what I like to call a “zoomed out” vantage point. I zoom out and take into consideration all factors in my decision and begin to cut myself slack because we always make decisions based on what we perceive is the best possible next step for our current situation and dynamics. With truly knowing and understanding that, compassion can soften the sharp and rigidity of the guilt, shame and regret. I had a whole script around how the relationship from which the child was conceived had turned south due to my decision (when in reality it already was south which was part of the reason for my decision).

The next thing I did was to give myself permission to fully grieve the loss of the life that I had conceived. My reasons for deciding the terminate the pregnancies were valid (and ANY REASON IS), however that did not mean that I was exempt from permission to process my emotions around it in a healthy and empowering manner. 

I read some something on how to create a release ritual for my unborn children. It involved actually opening up a dialogue and communicating my emotions around the decision. It also involved naming the child(ren) and truly having a heart to heart conversation. This was highly therapeutic for me because it allowed me to give them identities….names, genders and ages. I wrote to them and then took those letters to a body of water, set them on fire and then set the fiery memorandum afloat in the water. I have since learned and come to know that we as human beings truly do not have the ability to “kill” anyone. We may have the ability to harm and destroy the physical body, but we do NOT have the ability to harm nor destroy any energetic life force. Meaning, even when a person is killed, their energy and spirit live on infinitely and are reborn through another portal. I know this may be a controversial subject and I risk losing some of my readers due to this brazen position, and that’s alright This writing is intended to reach and help any sisters who may be carrying around guilt and baggage for similar decision(s)

I am here to let you know that you are forgiven, GOD forgives you and you ought to forgive yourself, because your decision was the best one you had to make at the time. This is something that is VERY common amongst women and is rarely spoken about openly. We have the right to make decisions about our bodies and reproductive health. We have the right to decide that the consequences outweigh the risk. We have the right to choose ourselves before another person. We even have the right to make mistakes and not judge ourselves for the rest of our lives. Everyone has made mistakes that caused them remorse and/or regret. It’s in the giving of permission of self to truly go and process that remorse and/or regret in which we free ourselves from the inner judgement and criticism. Once we are free from the bondage we hold ourselves to within, nothing or no one without can keep us tied to shame or guilt. 

I hope this message touched you in a positive, affirming and empowering way. 

With So Much Love, 

Megan(2)

The Honey Pot

Budding Goddess Vaginal Steam Service

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We are excited to share the evolution of our business and the expansive ways to offer value to the community!

Steaming as a rite of passage is especially important for adolescents because our bodies and lives are rapidly transforming during this phase of life. Connecting with and being made aware of the potential to honor, cherish and love your sacred space is profoundly important.
Includes:
-Perineal Steam (25-35 minutes)
-Access to safe, non-judgmental, education around body and spiritual -development.
Honey Pot Special Tea (Detoxifying and Soothing)
Once a young woman experiences her first menstruation, she can enjoy the many benefits of steaming. She will have a choice of seven formulated herbal blends which will be safely heated with alkaline water and then placed under an open seat, upon which you will sit. The perineal tissues and organs will experience immersion in medicinal herbal steam.
This service can be with an adult or independent, it can also be done with other Budding Goddesses.
All steams will be performed in a confidential, compassionate, nurturing and positive space. By connecting with your intimate well-being, you will be empowered to love, honor and heal yourself.
Book your special session with your Budding Goddess here
With So Much Love,
The Honey Pot (Megan)

How Vaginal Steaming Saved My Life

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Today, during a yoni steaming session, I was asked by a client to tell her my story and background around steaming. This is a question I get asked frequently so I pretty much have a “spiel”, where I gloss over the past 5 years of my life (for time efficiency’s sake) and how I have two small children (for a total of 4) and how I got a job when I was 9 months pregnant and then felt pressured to return to work in an alarmingly short time period because I perceived that I had to hurry back to work or the provision for my family would be jeopardized. I was too reliant on myself versus GOD, but GOD can always turn our pain into purpose and redeem decisions we made with less discernment than appropriate. YES GOD!

What I realized today, was that this is NOT A SPIEL. This is a story that needs to be honored, and acknowledged, and praised and learned from. YES GOD!

The truth is that I was involved in what seemed to be like a toxic relationship (but know I realize that the relationship served to show me a mirror to the “toxicity” frequency I vibrated within, that manifested itself in the story line that was my reality (life) at that time and in that space. I perceived that everything was on me and I had to bear the burden because that’s what I had always done…  I will blog more on this dynamic later but in interest of time and readers attention span I will focus back on how vaginal steaming served to save (and still does) my life.

Because I perceived that the societal pressures meant that I needed to sacrifice precious time with my newborn, I delved more deeply into my already natural and holistic lifestyle. My daughter was born naturally with no medication in the water on July 6, 2014. I steamed shortly after I returned home from the hospital and did so consistently 3-4 times per week for about 2 months and then monthly after to keep my cycles and entire body, mind and energy balanced throughout the navigation of the next almost 4 years where I would be standing in my kitchen, running my own business, sharing yoni steaming and the natural healing modalities that I have learned and am still learning with other women.

YES GOD.

When I really allowed myself to ponder and express what Yoni Steaming did for me, I realized it poured back into me. Not only did it literally give me botanical vapors containing medicinal properties, but it gave me a space to be vulnerable and receive the abundance of the earth.

Genesis 1:29 – And God said, Behold, I have given you every herb bearing seed, which [is] upon the face of all the earth, and every tree, in the which [is] the fruit of a tree yielding seed; to you it shall be for meat.

Revelation 22:1-2 –

In the midst of the street of it, and on either side of the river, [was there] the tree of life, which bare twelve [manner of] fruits, [and] yielded her fruit every month: and the leaves of the tree [were] for the healing of the nations.

 

2 In the midst of the street of it, and on either side of the river, [was there] the tree of life, which bare twelve [manner of] fruits, [and] yielded her fruit every month: and the leaves of the tree [were] for the healing of the nations.

 

With So Much Love,

 

The Honey Pot

Reconciling with God

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God, Jesus, Allah, Jehovah, The Universe, Source, Higher Self…

Humanity has a pressing need to “label” things in an attempt to be better equipped to wrap their mind around and accept things. I have personally grown to not subscribe to labels and make the intentional choice to accept, and be. God is infinite and all that exists. Therefore, I am infinite, and all that exists.

I have found that there are very specific levels of energy and these can be used to determine and/or predict the action, behavior, situations, emotional responses, outcomes, scenarios, dynamics and overall energetic implications of a person, place or thing. The learning of this knowledge has better equipped me to not only observe my own varying energy levels, but observe the energy or past, current and future endeavors as well. Combined with truly tapping into and trust my intuition is yielding wonderfully rapid and drastic results in my life and the lives of those whom I impact.

When I was a young girl, I had a song that came to me which consisted of the word “yes” repetitively. When I was in my early 20’s I attended a church names New Life Ministries in Rochester, NY and truly felt it in my soul when Bishop McGill told me that God was going to use me to spread “the message”. In fact, I felt it so much I enrolled in to the Master’s in Divinity Program at Shaw University shortly after my eldest child’s father was violently murdered in Rochester, NY.

Divinity school left me confused, anxious and angry at the social, political, historic and financial dynamics at play when Christianity was formed. Because I (and a lot of humanity) had been programmed within a very dualistic (extreme) nature, I just threw the whole religion out and deemed it oppressive, fake and ill intended. Now, there are still parts of the religion (and all religion(s) / spirituality frankly) that appeal more to it’s participant’s ego rather than the higher self dynamic. With and through unconditional love and compassion, religion/spirituality has it’s rightful place, along with any (yes any) dynamic written and cycled throughout the history of humanity.

As I take an observant role at where my life is currently, I am humbled, overwhelmed, honored and in extreme Awe at how my life has truly circled back to the very messages and inklings that my intuition (GOD) has been whispering into my spirit either directly or by way of other’s on my life’s path.

 

I am so grateful to have stepped into my evangelical prophesied role of being an example for God’s light here on earth. I am stepping into this role unapologetically and standing on faith that God will redeem and elevate me to a position and platform that will allow millions to be touched by this divine source that flows through me, and all of us.

YES GOD!!!

 

With So much Love,

 

The Honey Pot

(Megan)

Toxicity Is Relative

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She’s baaaaaccckkk!!! I’ve decided to force myself to be committed and consistent to documenting more of my intellectual property it would be a fantastic idea to begin responding to questions on my very philosophical and lofty views on life in public written form for many to access and hopefully be impacted an a very transformative, evolutionary way.

My gift is in my communication. I can articulate and express things in a manner which is relatable and thought-provoking. Lots of my deep and profound revelationary moments come within conversation. The conversation I have been having lately a lot and I’ve noticed has been swirling around is toxicity. As in, you’re toxic and I don’t want toxicity in my life. I know that’s something that I personally have said plenty of times and used as a justification to alow myself to completely shut down. (FEAR)

Then, I had to be honest and really consider what is toxic and/or toxicity and this is what I came up with. Toxicity is relative. Toxic is something that is not vibrating on the same frequency within you currently wish to vibrate.

Please re-read that sentence, beacause there are tons of variables in the words.

What is toxic to you today may not have been toxic to you yesterday, dependent on all the variables involved. We are not static, we constantly change and evolve, day to day, minute to minute and second to second. So does everything else in this Universe. We want to hold onto this theory of permanence when there is no such thing. Just because you are toxic to me today, doesn’t mean you deserve the label of being a “toxic person”.

When you were vibrating with a specific person, place, scenario, dynamic, it was always healthy for you, until it wasn’t. And there is nothing wrong with being present enough to recognize when it isn’t anymore. There is nothing wrong with knowing your boundaries to keep the pH balance (frequency) of your life vibration exactly where you intend it to be at any given moment.

Example. An “enlightened” being goes into a space with hardcare drug users. The enlightened being attepts to try to begin “helping” by doing emotional work to assist the drug user to get to the root of what pain and trauma is being suppressed to illicit this continued coping mechanism. Said emotional work triggers the individual who was not in the space to handle such a large charge, begins to lash out and become angry, defensive and “toxic”. But, who was toxic “first”? Relative .

I hope this message finds someone well. Be willing to see when you’re choices are toxic also, and not always in the conventional way.

With So Much Love,

Simply Megan